Saturday, August 15, 2009

Yoz guys! I'm currently reading this book titled 'The five languages oF APOLOGY' by the author of the fanmous The five love languages :)

I think that the insights that this book gives is amazing :) Indeed knowledge is power. Pastor jeffrey Rachmat said in one of the leaders' meeting that relationships are not broken bcoz ppl ran out of love for each other. In fact, surveys have shown that 70% of the couples who r divorced still love each other. What broke these countless relationships is that they have no knowledge or a lack of knowledge on how to cope n manage their relationships.

Just to let u guys have a peek. i haven finish the book. im not even half way done. haha. but here are the 5 languages of Apology. Hopefully u can recognise urs n also that of ur loved ones. The key of this book is that merely saying sorry might not be anough after all....

1. Expressing Regret ''i am sorry''

2. Accepting Responsibility ''i was wrong''

3. Making Restitution ''What can I do to make it right?''

4. Genuinely Repenting ''I'll try not to do that again''

5. Requesting Forgiveness ''Will you please forgive me?''